35 weeks pregnant with some questions/concerns please!?

Women don't always lose their mucus but when they do it is obvious. As far as when your water breaks, you'll definitely be able to tell. It feels like you are peeing and aren't able to stop. I wouldn't be worried about the head not being engaged at this point. And as far as delivering early, keep hydrated is a big key. At this point, even if your baby would be born early; it wouldn't be considered in danger. Swollen ankles and fingers are not abnormal at this stage in the game. This especially happens when your in one position for too long such as standing or sitting with feet down. Stretch marks are a normal pregnancy happening. It would be more suprising if you wouldn't have any. This just means you are getting bigger. Zapped energy is very normal as well. Sleep all you can at this point because afterward things are totally different. It is very important to talk to your doctor about ajax and comet as these could have harmful effects on the baby and could cause abnormalities, etc. Sounds like you have a lot of anxiety about it all. My suggestion would be to relax. Go for a mommy to be massage. Surround yourself with people who have good birth stories. Relax as baby's often decide when to be born and how they willl do it on their own. One book that I found extremely helpful during my pregnancy was the pregnancy book by Dr Sears and his wife. Hope this answers your questions!